16 Comments

Wow Jess, this letter is the best one yet! (and you have written SO many beautiful ones) I will read and re-read this because the content is just so full of reflection, ideas, encouragement, and most of all inspiration. Thank you for being you. 🤍

Expand full comment

🥹🥹🥹 thank you so much for taking the time to share these words lovely. They mean the absolute world ❤️

Expand full comment

This is really interesting but I’m not sure I understand what divine feminine is, it would be great if you could do a video on it as it’s something that does sound very intriguing and quite fascinating 🖤

Expand full comment

I can absolutely do that

Expand full comment

Jessica, you mentioned that you noticed a difference in the way you look and speak — I am a new YT subscriber and have been watching your old videos and I absolutely see it! It’s wild (in the most amazing way!).

Two questions:

- Who would you recommend for breathwork?

- What resources did you look to for learning about the divine feminine?

Expand full comment

I loved every word of this text 😍 My word of the year was Movement, meaning physically but also in moving away from the negative and not getting stuck in the past. I’m so curious about my word for 2025, what will show up. I will definitely try to join your workshops, the are really cozy and helpful🥰

Expand full comment

Such an interesting read that has left me with a lot of reflection. I had been wanting to embody my feminine energy a lot more, as someone who has spent a lifetime being hyper independent. I certainly listened to my body more and took a lot of physical rest when I needed it, where as I wouldn't in before, I'd power through and cause myself so much physical pain. Doing this helped my constant migraines, skin issues and endometriosis symptoms so much. But when I read the line you wrote about expressing your emotions instead of fighting with logic, it really hit me that is something I need to work on so much more and will hopefully lead to further softening and a more peaceful existence. Wishing you a wonderful Parisian Christmas X

Expand full comment

Lovely, as always. You have a gift for storytelling and your speaking voice is a natural complement.

As a fellow survivor of a narcissistic parent, I applaud your determination to find the source of your true strength. The oft overlooked trait children of narcissism possess, is resilience. This has been a big year, for you and you have navigated it with grace.

Much love,

Expand full comment

Fantastic letter! Love it, Jessica. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. ❤️

Expand full comment

Oh my goodness! Jessica! Absolutely beautiful. I'm so glad this has been a transformative year. As women we need to focus on being strong like a woman, not a man. I'm also a very independent person and have had many struggles in life, but my kids especially are what make me want to be an inspiring model for them of someone who is strong and compassionate so they can also make this world a better place. So inspiring! And wishing you all the best. Excited to see what 2025 holds!

Expand full comment

This is so beautifully expressed. I have many parallels in this year: facing trauma and abuse, exiting a 10 year marriage, starting over on my own, attending a Joe Dispenza retreat. I am struggling to process my grief at it all and to slow down given a full-time career and 2 little children. Life feels extremely chaotic. Do you have any books that helped you in your journey this year?

Expand full comment

I have similar experiences (no abuse but divorcing a narcissist and my girls are teens)❤️ I want to recommend Wintering by Katherine May and Choose you by Helen Marie. I also found Simple Soulful Sacred by Megan Dalla-Camina some years back and I love how it can be a kind of oracle book since it has short chapters on a subject with affirmations. Sending you lots of love on your healing journey, 💖

Expand full comment

thank you so much Sara, I am looking forward to reading these books. Sending you light as you navigate your won challenging chapter. The future peace outweighs the storm <3

Expand full comment

Wow Jess, this was so good! 👏🏼 Trauma is such a hard thing to deal with and it sounds like you are finally in a place where you can simply view the trauma from a distance but not be “in it”, if you know what I mean. Bravo! 🩷🩷

Expand full comment

Wow Jessica. This is so powerful. I can feel your feminine energy in this post.

I’ll look forward to following your ongoing growth and creativity in the new year ahead ❤️‍🩹❤️

So much of your post resonates. I haven’t identified it as ‘divine femininity’ though, and instead acknowledge that with my ongoing complex trauma healing and grief recovery the self love is growing as I release shame, blame, pain. I realise from reading your post that divine femininity and self love and compassion are maybe the same thing Xx

Expand full comment

I think this letter is one of your best, Jessica. I've learned that when I lean into that sense of trust, even if something doesn't turn out the way I think it "should," makes the journey so much more easeful.

Expand full comment